Pre-Natal Bonding
Article courtesy of Web Md
By Carol Sorgen. Reviewed By Cynthia Haines
Jeanne Berkowitz is expecting a baby in late January. In October, Jeanne and her husband went to Hawaii for a “babymoon.” While there, Jeanne got a massage from a woman who works frequently with pregnant women.
“She told me that it was important to massage my belly often to introduce the baby to human touch and to the world outside the womb,” Jeanne recalls, adding that she now massages the baby regularly, as does her husband. “We can often feel him respond by kicking back and changing positions.”
Jeanne says she’s not an expert on the benefits of prenatal massage, but reports that “it’s fun for us, helps us (especially my husband) think of the baby as a real person, and I can’t help but think it has to be good for the baby, too.”
Jeanne might be interested to know that there is indeed science to back up her intuitive feelings. According to Carista Luminare-Rosen, PhD, author of Parenting Begins Before Conception: A Guide to Preparing Body, Mind, and Spirit for You and Your Future Child, research shows that babies in the womb have the emotional and intuitive capabilities to sense their parents’ love. “Prenates can see, hear, feel, remember, taste, and think before birth,” says Luminare-Rosen, founder and co-director of The Center for Creative Parenting in Marin and Sonoma counties, Calif.
Bonding (also known as attachment), says Marilee Hartling, RN, prenatal program manager at Cedars-Sinai Medical Center in Los Angeles, is how babies — before and after birth — learn what the world is all about. “It’s also part of their personality development.
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Comment by Luisa Fernanda on Jul 23 2009 02:05:05:
When I was pregnant I used to play music to my baby with my earphones stuck to my belly, son I couldn´t hear the music myself. One day the baby started kicking furiously against the exact spot on my belly where the earphone was, so I took it off and found out, to my surprise, that the music had stopped. I put another playlist on, put the earphone back on, and he sttled back into quiet happiness. It is not like I needed proof that he responded to stimulae, but the experience was incredible.
Comment by Alex on Jul 28 2009 11:31:20:
During my pregnancy, my husband and I took time each evening before bedtime (when they are most active!) to just say a few words to our baby. Each evening, it’d be the same words. I honestly believe that the baby recognized those same words upon birth because he often will stop crying and just stare when we say those precious phrases. Sounds crazy, but it is true.