One-on-one babysitting in your home. The provider
may live with you or "live out." Cost: $1,200 to $4,000 a month.
what to look for
Does the caregiver have a parenting philosophy that is similar to yours?
Does the caregiver speak English well enough to handle an emergency?
A valid driver's license and insurance if she'll be transporting your child.
Use an agency, or place ads in your local paper to find candidates. International Nanny Association President Pat Cascio recommends, "Professional nanny referral agencies have expertise in screening and selecting the highest quality childcare providers in their area." If placing a newspaper ad, use the phone to screen thoroughly. Only interview the top candidates and always check references.
red flags to avoid
A candidate who is reluctant to supply references
or unwilling to submit to a background check at your expense.
Caregiver with an unstable personal life or unreliable transportation.
Someone whose child rearing philosophy, including discipline, is at odds with yours.
legal requirements
Paying all relevant taxes and checking the caregiver's immigration status is your
responsibility. Nanny and au pair agencies typically run national and state
background checks on their clients. If you plan to videotape a nanny caring for
your child, check first with an attorney and get the nanny's consent in advance.
advantages
Provides one-on-one care that may be more nurturing.
More convenient than transporting your child to and from a daycare facility.
If you have an early schedule, there's no need to wake your sleeping baby as the provider comes to your home.
disadvantages
You'll have to make other arrangements if your nanny
is sick, dealing with a family emergency or on vacation.
Difficult to monitor quality of care.
Can be expensive.
Loss of privacy.
where to learn more
International Nanny Association: nanny.org, 888-878-1477;
Alliance of Professional Nanny Agencies: theapna.org;
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