The Top 10 Ways To Raise a Polite Child
6. Demonstrate and discuss the importance of making a difference in someone’s life everyday. Encourage your child to be grateful for what he has – your home should always exemplify an “attitude of gratitude.”
7. Prepare children for the art of social exchange – meeting and greeting, eye contact, body language, a firm handshake. This is essential for making friends and keeping them, being part of a group and socialization.
8. Outline rules for courteous behavior- be courteous on cell phones, computers and the Internet.
9. Advocate the importance of accepting responsibility and becoming personally accountable; this is an essential step towards independence.
10. Show respect for our planet – recycle, reuse grocery bags, turn lights off, don’t litter and conserve energy whenever possible.
About the authors:
Dr. Jodi Stoner holds a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology and is a licensed Mental Health Counselor. She has worked for over 30 years with families, individuals and couples in parenting, psychotherapy, and life transitions. Dr. Stoner is also an educational specialist with a Master’s Degree in Behavior Disorders and practiced in the Georgia and Florida Public School System for 15 years. Dr. Stoner has served as an expert witness in civil matters. She has been a guest speaker on topics such as relationship building, parenting skills and life skill enhancement.
Ms. Lori Weiner is a Career Coach with more than 25 years experience as a Career Services Director. She worked as a National Director of Career Services overseeing 27 schools nationwide. In that capacity for Computer Learning Centers, Inc., she wrote the “Career Services Training Manual” and other “best practice” documents. She has also supervised training at various corporations in providing quality customer service. Weiner has been awarded numerous performance awards and, in 2003, was a speaker at the Florida Association of Post-Secondary Schools & Colleges Conference in Orlando, Florida. She continues to mentor new graduates in career development.
Good Manners are Contagious is available on GoodMannersareContagious.com, Amazon.com, and retail book stores.



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Comment by Michael Gwanda on May 12 2012 06:09:30:
perfect presentations
Comment by Patricia Törngren on Sep 06 2012 11:38:07:
I'd like to share my article with you on the same subject matter — children model their behaviour on ours, and automatically become sincerely polite, respectful and kind if we are those things to them.
http://www.parenting-with-love.com/raising-a-polite-child/
Best wishes!
Comment by Kimra Luna Diggs on Sep 07 2012 12:17:54:
easy: be polite yourself, and they learn from example.
Comment by Kimra Luna Diggs on Sep 07 2012 12:17:58:
haha
Comment by Patricia Törngren on Sep 21 2012 12:37:22:
And there is so much we can learn from them if we are willing to take the time to listen…
Comment by Patricia Törngren on Oct 10 2012 11:25:07:
I enjoyed reading your point four, "Foster and teach the value of values – honesty, tolerance, empathy, compassion, gratefulness, kindness – embrace them!"